I do intuitive readings for many people whom are going through a break up. Most of them find it hard to move on.
It seems our society has taught us that we need to stop loving someone when a break up happens. I believe this is literally impossible. We are supposed to stop speaking to them, exchanging thoughts, ideas, physical expression. One day you have someone with whom you share a big part of yourself and then suddenly no more.
Oden says love is a power and force, it is what propels the universe and heavens in a mystic swirl of magnetic attraction and is responsible for our ability to incarnate here.
Without love we are a shell of matter, existing without purpose, without meaning, without joy.
We do not choose the people we love, and that also needs some consideration. We pre-plan and schedule love, and life events before we ever get here. Each soul we fall in love with has made an agreement to interact, learn, grow and experience physical life with us. If the relationship doesn’t work, out, it is because one or both of you have dropped the contract you agreed to, by utilizing your FREE WILL to change your mind. If we didn’t have such a contract, we wouldn’t be magnetically attracted to that soul and we would not be able to express it with physical love.
So stop beating yourself up for bad relationship choices. It had to happen. It was part of your life plan. The plan was to have the relationship, to give one or both of you to experience something. If the relationship ends, your souls have moved on different paths, but you still had to honor the agreement to meet. Love the soul, separate it from the actions. Understand that many things influence the outcome of a relationship: family, childhood, accidents, drug abuse; all things we may or may not have prepared for, because everyone has free will! (not just the good guys-sometimes it is someone using their free will to mess with yours.) Love is the strongest force in the world. We all know how happy and alive we feel when it enters our life.
So, don’t ever try to stop loving someone again. Instead expand your energy field until it blends with the highest guides, angels, God. Let the physical love transform into something greater than what can exist here.
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